Pt 1: And it’s been a week too long, there were several things that I’ve been doing wrong. You see the time it takes for you, Is the time it takes for me

We’ve just had two long weekends in a row here in New Zealand – first it was Auckland Anniversary Weekend, during which we went to the Laneway festival (which I shall eventually get around to posting about, gah!), followed by this past Monday, which was Waitangi Day. Naturally, I’ve been trying to fit in as much fun as these last few weeks of summer holidays will offer me. I can’t lie, I’m not looking forward to university this year at all. Moreso than the average uni student, that is – because I’ve bitten off a lot for this year, and it will definitely be some kind of mental struggle with myself to stay on top of things right from the get go. Of course, next year will be much worse… but for now, let’s try and conquer 2012 first, right?

The boy and I were discussing personal goals we have for this year. That is, goals that are not academically related, and are, I suppose, meant to be more far-reaching into our lives and future in general. The only one he’s come up with at the moment is to read more – which is also one of mine, but to be honest it’s rather intimidating because he already reads far more than I do, especially since he doesn’t have as many time-consuming side-things like I do. Such as this blog. Anyway, obviously reading is something that I think is supremely important, but besides that, another one of my goals was to take this blog more seriously. Which isn’t going very well at the moment because real-life is first priority, but I intend on going back on things and definitely making posts on all the travels we did, and the other things I feel worthy of sharing and writing about in general.

So, onto the good stuff. I thought, screw writing about something from last month or last week, this is what I did this past weekend – we went and saw Dan Deacon play at Whammy Bar. Not my favourite venue, but we were pleasantly surprised at how well the venue actually worked out for Dan Deacon’s show, and the crowd plus the way he interacted with it was just amazing. Definitely one of the best and most fun shows that I’ve ever been to. I met the boy in town after he got off work and we had hours and hours before the concert started, so we just absolutely winged the evening and it was great. I’d wanted to shoot on film, so I ended up bringing our family’s old film point-and-shoot and carried it like a handbag slung over one shoulder. These are all the photos that we took that night, none were omitted. Each and every one of them are gems to me and truly reflect how we chose to spend and enjoy our evening as the sun finally fell and our alcohol purchases hiked in price. I’m no expert on such topics, but it’s during all these moments shown below and the infinite amount of undocumented ones that I finally seem to grasp the idea of being in a “relationship”. And all those fights and tears and past grudges and pride and all that shit just melts away and for a moment – or a touch longer, if you’re lucky to not be me – pure, untainted clarity presents itself and you can almost kid yourself that this is it, this is why I’m alive, I am so fucking loved. All you can see is your better half, their eyes, their gaze, whether reading your soul in that very moment as you are theirs, or even just glancing at the bottom of their pint, oblivious to your epiphany – everything just seems right, just feels meant to be: perfect. Or at least, as close to perfection as this world will ever deal you, and as “perfect” as you’d ever dare to ask for, really. And if not for these moments of utter happiness and raw, raw love, then why do we bother with anything?

And so, here is the happiest that a fat man has ever made us. I will definitely post a playlist including Dan Deacon soon!

The boy showing me where he sometimes eats his lunch at work. Like a bunny in headlights, he said.

Where we devoured a plate of wedges coated in cheese, bacon and a thick helping of sour cream. Delicious.

Knocking back a decent beer. Prime example of what close-range flash with an old film point-and-shoot camera does.

One of my favourite photos of myself. He should be proud of himself.

The feijoa cider was sold out but we found out that the Wine Cellar also does a yummy feijoa (and other flavoured) liqueur. For $25 we bought a whole bottle and mixed it with soda water and ice ourselves.


Dan Deacon setting up.

And starting up.

Then all hell broke loose.

He instructed that a circle was to be formed, which definitely resembled a circle of death, but luckily he also had quirky on instructions as to how to get the whole room dancing.

We were greeted with this after our return from the bathroom. It looks like they’re praying, does it not?

The boy’s proudest achievement of the evening (other than going home with me of course… ahem).

Knackered. He bought me a frozen coke from McD’s and my shirt stunk like everybody else’s sweat. We sat in the lobby of his workplace for a bit and I waited for him to go upstairs to fetch his stuff.

Now it’s off to bed to continue reading Game of Thrones. Need to finish it so the boy can borrow it, ha.


  1. cantaloupe February 8, 2012

    Aw, you look so cute in the one with the thumbs up. The concert looks like a lot of fun. Ones where the whole crowd is dancing are the best best best!

  2. Caity February 10, 2012

    Yay for blogging more! :)

    Looks like you had a blast! Also, fiejoa cider is SO GOOD. That’s like ALL I drink now since I got to NZ (well, when I’m drinking).

  3. Michelle February 12, 2012

    You look so pretty :)
    Looks as if you had tons of fun :D

  4. Georgina February 13, 2012

    I love your outfit!

    Don’t you just love it when your boyfriend takes a good picture of you ;) It makes me feel so loved. Haha. I’m glad things are going well for both of you.

    I don’t think I need to give more time to my blog. I think I need to give more time to reading other people’s. ;)

  5. Michelle February 13, 2012

    Looks like an amazing time! ;D

  6. Angela See, Angela Blog February 13, 2012

    My coco=my loveee hhehee. LOVE YOUR PHOTOS sounds/looks like you had a blast, can’t wait to hear about laneway!

    Thanks for the comment

    New Outfit Post:Midnight Turquoise

  7. NaNa February 13, 2012

    Looks like you had a blast! And i’m really loving your floral kimono too!

    ? from the NaNa girls x

  8. NaNa February 13, 2012

    Looks like you had a blast! And i’m really loving your floral kimono too!

    ? from the NaNa girls x

  9. NaNa February 13, 2012

    Looks like you had a blast! And i’m really loving your floral kimono too!

    ? from the NaNa girls x

  10. NaNa February 13, 2012

    Looks like you had a blast! And i’m really loving your floral kimono too!

    ? from the NaNa girls x

  11. Rochelle Rae February 13, 2012

    Pretty certain if we had to meet, we would get on so well!

    Beer – yum.

    Looks like you had an amazing time. ;-)

    Look forward to seeing more posts from you. :)


  12. […] over the fact that I’d constantly get asked about it. These are also the shoes that I wore to the Dan Deacon show, four days after Laneway. I know it seems silly to wear heels to a festival (believe it or not, it was the boy that convinced […]

  13. Jenni February 23, 2012

    Gorgeous photos, I’m so jealous. It’s all grey and miserable here!

    I’m reading Game of Thrones at the moment too – it took me a while to get into it but I’m looking forward to getting on with the rest of the series :)


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